Don t combine buddies and new lovers You have a friend with a pad in Manhattan who s been begging you to come and stay. Bring your new girlfriend , he says. You guys will have the best time here. No you won t. not if you ve never been away together before and you want to spend a lot of time catching up with your old buddy. They might like each other and get along fine, but a first time holiday is about romance, and you re not going to get that when you re trying to divide your time and attention between a friend and a lover.
Perhaps...